When most people think of virgins, their brains immediately go to images of young women in their teens and early 20s, not men over the age of 22.
Virginity has, therefore, seemed to take on femininity as it is rather hard to define or test for masculine virginity. This is because, since time memorial, the issue of male virginity has not been such a big deal. Men are said to think of the act more often than women and also highly influence the decision to have it or not to have it. There are a number of discussions about the virginity of men. Some doctors have come up with beliefs like dark knees as a sign for a man having lost his virginity. It is as easy as looking at a man’s knees and you are able to tell whether they are virgin or not.
Doctors that affirm to this have been criticized although they confidently confirm due the experience they have taken in testing for male virginity. Some of the parameters for testing for male virginity include but are not limited to the following and how easily the foreskin may slip back and forth easily.
1. Awkward Kissing
A guy is a virgin if his way of kissing is rather unbearable and awkward. He will be shy while kissing. Irrespective of what a guy says, if he is a good kisser, then there are very few signs that he is still a virgin. It is, therefore, more likely that he is not a virgin. Although some guys are bad kissers, it does not necessarily mean that they are virgins. Bad kissers are not weird but virgins are shy in most cases and usually close their eyes while kissing, one way you will tell he is virgin.
2. A virgin is often shy about touching you
If a man has got intimate and or involved with a girl before will not be afraid of touching a female. Being shy is not quite an obvious sign that one is a virgin but an easy indicator to tell you one is a virgin. A man is a virgin if he fears to get intimate with you, or even just touching the intimate parts. Do not confuse his respect for you for his shyness about touching you; It is strongly true that he is virgin if he is shy about touching you but he may not touch you especially in public as a sign of respecting you.
3. While Making love, he will ask for permission
It is most likely that if he is a virgin, then he has no experience in this field, getting intimate therefore will challenge him a bit since he has not been in such a position before. He will often ask for you to let them do what they want to do. It is possible that he has maybe watched a number of rated movies with intimate scenes, but it will still be an avalanche during his first time encounter. Confusion from not knowing what to do may result and this may make him pretend as if he is so confident about what he is doing even when he is not in the actual sense.
4. When getting physically intimate, he is very unsure
It is true that he is a virgin if he is not sure about his reactions towards your advances. Unlike a guy who has been involved before, he is in position to easily react from the simplest of signs you may throw. However, if he has no idea about what to do when you make advances, then it is most likely to be his first time thus showing that he is a virgin. A virgin guy will be very gingerly about getting intimate with you, and if it so happens that the female is not a virgin, then she will find him very unaware of the whole situation.
5. He is “So Quick”
Due to lots of excitement, it is most likely that a virgin will “end” after a very short time. This may even happen before the action happens. It is certain that he will “end” if it his first encounter of making love. It is obvious that he is always conscious of what he is doing which makes him edgy and tense since it is his first time. He is not in a position to well control his desires and so any slight action of stimulation easily causes him a quick end. With more experience, guys learn how to control their feeling in order to sustain the process.
The above signs will most likely indicate that a guy is a virgin, but it is good to make their first encounter free from constraint when getting intimate if you find out he is a virgin.
Doctors have made it clear that the first time a person has sex with another person is when they lose their virginity and once lost, it’s forever lost.